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Continue shopping. Item s unavailable for purchase. The swinging sixties 's was a period of free love, long hair and chilled music, often associated with pot smoking Californians. However it was really a period where social taboos were relaxed to the point of denouncement by the conservatives.
Was this period the catalyst for swinging to become acceptable within western society? Up until the late 90's swingers had to meet through swingers clubs, the personal ads in newspapers and contact magazines or maybe down at the local nudist beach. Today, with western society's relatively uninhibited attitudes towards swinging and the advent of the Internet, it's now relatively easy to meet other swingers.
In Australia there are 2 websites, redhotpie. It's certainly easier to find who you're looking for compared to swinging clubs - although clubs give you the opportunity to speak with them and usually see them in the flesh note many profiles on swinging websites don't have recent genuine photo's and some are totally fake. Swinging isn't for everyone! A couple must be very mature in their relationship to even consider it as an option.
They need to be totally honest with themselves and their partner when it comes to their expectations, feelings, emotions and experiences with swinging. And their relationship needs to be stable, as trust becomes paramount when engaging in swinging. Whilst I'm certainly not a swinging expert I have some experience with ex-partners , I thought I'd compile a list of do's and don'ts for those of you who want to venture into its mysterious and erotic world:.
Remember swinging can be a very liberating sexual experience. If you find the right partner who enjoys it as much as you, who you trust and if it doesn't cause issues between the two of you, then I believe it can make your relationship stronger. If it starts to cause issues then talk them through and if you can't resolve them then forget swinging as it's not for you both.
I'm currently writing this blog on a flight to Melbourne where I'm visiting Calvista, Australia and NZ's largest sex toy wholesaler, of which I'm still managing director and the major shareholder of. I've had a few interested Qantas hosties looking over my shoulder whilst I'm typing. We've just landed and I've now ran out of time to write the "Don'ts", so I'll do this as next week's blog post. On Sale! Back View all On Sale! Sex Toys. See all Sex Toys.
See all Vibrators. See all Lingerie. See all Essentials. See all Lubricants. Swinging — Do's and Don'ts Part 1. Swingers And then there were spin the bottle parties. Whilst I'm certainly not a swinging expert I have some experience with ex-partners , I thought I'd compile a list of do's and don'ts for those of you who want to venture into its mysterious and erotic world: Do's Take the time to discuss the prospect of swinging with your partner and agree on what you both want from the experience. Also be certain that you both want to do it and for the right reasons.
I know sometimes females can feel pressured. Neither partner should be, or feel, pressured to do anything they don't want to do sexually, swinging or otherwise. Be confident that the experience won't damage your relationship with your partner. This is your primary responsibility and you both need to continuously reassess it and talk about the effects, positive and negative, that swinging may have on your relationship. Whilst you may develop a friendship and emotional feelings for any swinging partners, remember they're not who you're in a committed relationship with note some couples are simply friends with benefits who need a swinging partner ie.
Recognise there is potential for your relationship to go 'pear shaped' if swinging develops to a point of much more than living out sexual fantasies.
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Respect your partner's feelings and desires. Remember the prospects of jealousy issues arising are high, particularly for inexperienced swingers. For example men can feel inadequate if their female partner doesn't stop raving about what a great or huge cock the other guy has, how good looking he is or what an awesome body he has. Similarly a female doesn't want to hear her partner go on and on about the other woman's looks or body. And she's going to have serious insecurities if you tell her how fantastic the other woman's breasts or ass are.
Eagerness to a point is fine however beyond this can create problems. Fixation is potentially sexy providing it's not overwhelming. Agree rules and boundaries with your partner before you engage in swinging with another couple similar rules may apply to threesomes. If you want to consider breaking those rules during sex then you need your partner's permission ie.
There are many potential rules and they're all a function of your level of experience, what you're comfortable with and what you want from the experience. I've learnt not to judge people, as what's frowned upon by some may be normal practise for others. Prior to engaging in sex with another couple do agree on a 'safe' word or action if either of you want to call time out or a stop to the proceedings. Similarly if you're not happy with something that's happening speak up at your earliest opportunity rather than let the situation get out of hand.
Let the other couple know what your boundaries are and ask what theirs are.
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